Gem Mercury

Compatibility help please?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and I’m a female Capricorn and he’s a Cancer. Here’s a few details from our seperate birthcharts:
Me: Gem rising/Capricorn sun/ Libra moon/Capricorn mercury/Scorpio venus/Virgo mars/Sag jup/Cap uran/Cap nep/Scorp pluto
Him: Virgo rising/Cancer sun/Gem moon/Gem mercury/Gem venus/Virgo mars/Sag jup/Cap uran/Cap nep/Scorp pluto
A friend of mine did our birthcharts and I noticed though I’m a Capricorn, my sun’s in the 4th house and his sun’s in the 10th house. Doesn’t that make us double opposite?
And are we compatible? I’m new to this whole astrology thing.
If you’re new to the whole astrolgy thing, let’s talk a lilttle.
All those signs and placements you listed are nice, but aren’t real helpful unless there’s degrees attached to them. The degrees tell me whether or not they are actually in aspect and influencing each other, not just in the same sign or in harmony.
Soooo…go to http://www.astro-software.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f and put in your info. It will make a chart for you and will give you a list of aspects between you and a brief explanation of each aspect. Then if you have specific questions about aspects, we have something to realy work with.
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